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YOUR ROLE

This Christmas season is my first being a mom, and it’s really got me thinking about what Mary must have gone through. She was scorned for becoming pregnant before marriage, her birth experience was full of discomfort and inconvenience, and she raised this perfect baby boy to later watch him die right before her eyes on the cross. I’d like to think that knowing he was the Son of God gave her a bit more peace and understanding, but he was still her child.

Mary was the only person to watch Jesus come into this world and leave this world. She held him as a fresh warm newborn and also as a cold lifeless man. We can imagine that even if she’d known all this suffering would take place, she still would have said yes to being Jesus’ mother.

Would you have said yes? Would you have endured all the pain that was required of Mary? And if so, why weren’t you the one God deemed fit to fill this role?

And we know that for those who love God all things work together for good, for those who are called according to His purpose. -Romans 8:28

The thing is, we all have a part to play. Maybe we weren’t Jesus’ mother or father. Maybe we aren’t called to leave our homes and go overseas. Maybe all we’re meant to do is get up and go to our 9-5s and live life with the people in our office. But whatever it is, it’s been assigned to you specifically by God. The same God that chose Mary has chosen you. You have a special role to play in fulfilling God’s will, and it is just as important to accept your task as it was for Mary to accept hers.

But I have raised you up for this very purpose, that I might show you my power and that my name might be proclaimed in all the earth. -Exodus 9:16

We’re all in this for the same reason. Our decision making should begin and end with God. Ask Him what your job is, and work fervently towards it. There will be ups and downs, but you were created with that purpose in mind. This is your part. And He’s trusting you with it because He knows you are exactly who He needs.

He has saved us and called us to a holy life — not because of anything we have done but because of his own purpose and grace. -2 Timothy 1:9

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RINGING IN 2016

Oh 2015, the year of new adventures.

It was interesting for sure. I became an aunt, booked a few jobs, lived alone for the first time, and drove drove drove til my tush was numb – all while spending 1/3 of the year away from my husband. It was rough. But it was a good rough.

I mean, let’s face it. No one’s year turned out like they would have envisioned. May it be good surprises or tire-popping potholes, we all encountered something unexpected, and the same thing will happen next year. The best thing we can do is be ready to face the giants of 2016 head-on while paying attention to the little details along the way.

Today has been entertaining though. It’s the last day of the year, and everyone is reflecting on what happened the last 365 days. I could join in by listing what I did, who I met, where I went, and how I changed, but I’ll spare you the gag sesh. I know what I’m proud of. I’ll keep it to myself. Instead, I’d like to share with you some things I learned + precautions I will take in 2016. Feel free to take notes.

Lessons from 2015

Your hair can and will get stuck in a blowdryer. I’m not the exception to the rule.

Not everyone loves my dog as much as I do.

Selfies are ok as long as you use a tripod.

Ticks are real. Very real.

75% of what comes out of my mouth at home is completely ignored by my husband. I’m ok with it.

You should keep your eyes open at all times while singing in the car.

It may take buying seven or eight lip stains to find the right shade. Oops.

Living alone is fun. It only takes 3 weeks to stop crying!

You won’t ‘literally die’ from giving up a TV show or two.

And lastly, it’s ok to touch other people’s pets and babies. Just ask first.

Goals for 2016

Go on more hikes.

Eat less bread and cheese. And tator tots. No more tator tots.

Try my best to actually use the 100 bottles of nail polish I own.

Get more than two haircuts a year.

Give gifts and compliments often.

Wear more sunscreen – not because I need to, but because apparently it’s healthy.

Say yes to everything. But not drugs. Don’t do drugs.

Take more pictures with Morgan. 

Give away more clothes. Give away, like, all my clothes.

Love everyone. With all that you have. No matter what.

I hope you all have a blessed New Year. Be safe. Have fun. Keep my lists for future reference.

Love,

Lauren

Photos by Anna Grace Photography

THE CHRISTMAS PATH

In this world, there is a lot of uncertainty. We go through life not always having the answers, and sometimes it’s frustrating to be blinded by the unknown. So, we do the best we can. We cling to ideas and beliefs that best suit our needs. By creating our own truths and rules, we can justify our actions.

So how do you find the correct path? How do you know which one is right…

Many people ask, why Jesus? Why is He the way? What makes Christianity so different from every other religion or idea?

It’s quite a complex question to ask. Some people like to think of it this way: God is sitting atop a mountain and on all sides of the mountain are different paths. You may take a different path to get to the top, but we all end up in the same place as long as you believe in God or a higher power of some sort. So if everyone makes it up there somehow, why Christianity over something else? Why Jesus? Why the cross?

Take a journey with me to the top of this mountain. You’ve got your hiking boots on, backpack filled with food and water, equipment to get you through the rough patches, and you know which direction you’re headed. In the first thirty minutes it’s smooth sailing until you come across some poison ivy. You hop over to another path only to find it’s snake infested. Backtrack to the previous route, and you’re good to go. Well just kidding, you’ve come up on a drop off too high and your equipment just won’t cut it. Now you transition to another route. This pathway is gorgeous. The scenery is breathtaking! After an hour or so of trees and flowers and a view to die for, you get wrapped up and eat some berries that were not meant for your stomach. You take a break to feel better and choose a fourth path. This path leads you to the top but when you get there – nothing. You’re standing up there completely alone and confused. You can’t figure out why all your hard work was wasted. There’s no one there but you.

Why?

One word:

CHRISTMAS

In every other religion, we have to work to get to God. But instead of waiting for us to come to Him, He sent His Son to earth to save us. He humbly left His throne in heaven to become flesh and take on the sins of the world. Jesus doesn’t force us to take that journey. He’s not sitting in heaven with His nose held high, judging the world and reminding us of all our shortcomings. He came down. Why? Because He loves us.

What other god did that? None other than Jesus Christ.

And that’s what Christmas is all about. It is about our Lord leaving heaven to save us from an impossible journey that would only lead to defeat because of sin. No amount of effort on our part can get us to heaven. What happened on the cross does. We aren’t worthy of eternal life with God, so

He gave us a Way up by sending His Son down.

I don’t know all the answers. I won’t until I’m resurrected with the rest of our brothers and sisters. But one thing I do know is this: even if I wasn’t sure about religion, even if I had more questions than answers, even if the grass seemed greener on the other side, I would rather follow a God that sacrificed for me than a god who didn’t.

You can climb all day long. Climb as high as you want. But just know that you don’t have to because two thousand years ago, a Savior was born in a manger. While other religions are busy trying to reach unrealistic expectations, our Father is kneeling down to meet us where we are. That’s what’s different about Jesus. His love and forgiveness.

“I am the way and the truth and the life. No one comes to the Father except through Me.” John 14:6

Merry Christmas

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How many Kings stepped down from their thrones?

How many Lords have abandoned their homes?

How many Greats have become the least for me?

And how many gods have poured out their hearts

To romance a world that is torn all apart?

How many Fathers gave up their Sons for me?

Only One did that for me.

Find the song here.

CHRISTMAS PLAYLIST

Happy Holiday | Bing Crosby

It Came Upon A Midnight Clear | Johnny Mathis

The Little Drummer Boy | Harry Simeone Chorale

Silent Night | Frank Sinatra

White Christmas | Dean Martin

God Rest Ye Merry, Gentlemen | Perry Como

Jingle Bell Rock | Bobby Helms

All I Want For Christmas | Ray Charles

It’s Beginning To Look A Lot Like Christmas | Perry Como & The Fontane Sisters

O Little Town Of Bethlehem | Frank Sinatra

Away In A Manger | Bing Crosby

Rockin’ Around The Christmas Tree | Brenda Lee

Baby, It’s Cold Outside | Dean Martin

Have Yourself A Merry Little Christmas | Judy Garland

I’m old school. Mariah Carey and Glee Christmas can only last me so long before I revert back to the traditional songs I grew up on. I don’t know what it is about Bing and Perry that set my heart ablaze, but they really know how to make Christmas sound right.

I hope this playlist brings you joy this season. Grab some hot chocolate and your loved ones, and enjoy! And if you’re a Pandora listener, check out their Christmas Radio station. It’s full of the good ole stuff.

Merry Christmas

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